rarely..

religious people rarely realize

that they are wanna be’s too.

choose

Choose..

Why do you write??

1. no reason et all

2. there is one but U wanna keep it private

3. publicity stunt

4. time killer

5. U never thought there had to be a reason, but wrote cuz people used to,

and now that I am asking., Ur like waadddd???

6. Others please specify..

perception is where we all differ

Q: define perception...and dont say its the way u see things...thats a cliche
Ans:
a single unified awareness derived from sensory processes while a stimulus is present.


Q: so u believe it is always: Singular
and based only on sensory processes??

Ans:
in a way yes.,
i cant describe it.,
in a casual.,
its our take on things.,
which is formed on the basis of our conditioning .,
n more importantly our perception about others things.,
its like a recursive definition..



Q: perception of other thigs..so u believe its never ever isolated?

Ans:
i dnt think so.,
but i really dont know.,
to me the definition is very confusing.,
if it were alone it wud be based on an assumption.,
n also on ur perception again that U wnt reagard ur assumption as a perception..

eGo

Osho has said.,

“the ego is absolutely masturbation.

you do everything to yourself through your own reflections”

if ur wondering why ego., then here it is.,
U can say 99% of th world around us is ego.,

what is ego.?
In a basic sense., its a wrong interpretation of the self.,
Nature sends us empty handed n takes us away empty handed..

ego starts the moment ur born or at times even before that..

few things we get at birth.,
a name.,
religion.,
family.,
home.,
neighbours., etc..

then they become our identity.,
we are no more..

after th primitive age is over.,
we start schooling. then another identity is added to us.,
school., then th class ., then ur rank in the class.,
ur frens in school..

some day U grow up., meet people of the opposite sex.,
fall in love giving urself another identity., and all ur life.,
things get accumulated..

one fine day if someone asks you.,
"who are you?"
U simply dont know.,
cause U have been conditioned to believe that all the
identities you wre given since childhood is wat you are.,
n moreover
these fake identities ( fake in the sense U dont discover them., they
are simply passed on to you )
lead to all the conflicts n fights n literally all the wrong things in
life..

you are ready to kill others ., not just one or two.,
entire towns ., nations are killed .,
n the reason
someone made fun of ur name ., ur religion., n other things.,
things that are nt even a part of you.,

U go on killin., fightin for somethin you dont even have.,
U have a feelin all ur life that its urs.,
U posses it.,

but one cant possess anythin but oneself.,
actually U cant even posses urself.,
we have a belief we do.,
but there r so many obligations that are imposed on Us.,
that we cant even posses ourselves..

anothr example of ego is somethin U mite not agree to.,
one of the biggest gifts of mind is language.,
n one of language's best is humor.,

most humor is centered around the ego.,
either U make fun of someone's religion.,
his body.,
his origin.,
n things like that.,

n wat does one get after it., ego satisfaction.,
so many., rather most of us., live for ego satisfaction.,

there is this movie revolver which has few lines that mean a lot.,

here U go.,

There is something about urself that
you dont know., something you wil deny that it even exists., untill its too late to do something about it., Its th only reason you get up in the morning., only reason you suffer in the shitty bus., the blood., the sweat and the tears.,this is because you want people to know how good., attractive, funny,active generous., and clever you really are.? fear or revere me., but please think I am special.
If You have an addiction., a group of junkies are all in it for a slap on th back and the gold watch., th hip hop who fuckin raw.,
look at the clever boy with th badge polishing his tropy., shine on ur crazy diamond..
cause we are just monkey's wrapped in suits begging for th approval of others..
If we knew this we wouldn do this...
Someone is hiding this from us., n if U had a second chance you would ask WHY..?

I feel this post is incomplete.,
dunno wen but wil complete it someday.,
if U can help me do so., ur most welcome.,

is it??

iS history reliable?

they dont

Facts don’t give a damn about difference of opinion.

how??

How would you respond to a friend pointing out some kind of hypocrisy practiced by the elders in your family??

What is better???

Case 1: a child paints something, its not good, not worth that much of an appreciation,Should the mother be telling the child that its very nice, n U tried very hard n that is what matters, and every1 can’t be a great artist n boasting things like that.

Case 2: Or she should simply tell the child, well tried but U were no where close to the mark, so that the child realizes where he/she stands.

The similar scenario can be considered between 2frens, a couple, etc etc..

kyun??

why is it so necessary??

why.

Can’t we hold back our

emotions,

feelings,

thoughts, etc.etc.

why is there so strong a craving to vent everything out,

why can’t we contain these things inside,

why is it so tough??

why??

"why do people allege you of being idealist or impractical when you tell them a right that they are failing to practice concerning their beliefs and values?"

query

Quesiton.--;;
what do U call the factor when the effort is more than required.,
plannning is rite and even the execution is right., but still the outcome is lesser than expected.?

dont gimme bad luck., its too common a term.,
n also dont tell me high expectations..



Vaibhav:
nope.. its called bad execution..
it is also the lack of interest in the thing u do..
that keeps me from giving 100% .. hope thats made it simple..


anish:
if the execution is right then the outcome should be as expected...
but if it is not then there would be something missing in the planning itself.......
may be u need to revisit your plans..



divya:
hahaha..i wld say none of those
infat i think u have lacked one thing patience.....
the results may nt be seen today..bt sooner yes..u lack patience



becks:
[:-/]..I dont kno mate. Bt i'm one of those, who believes in WHATEVR HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR GOOD..
Sooner than later u will realize this n thn u will hv ur answer, y the outcome was lesser than xpected !!



vinay:
its not bad luck. i guess....
u can call it "hard work"...
cos ur never happy if u worked more than needed...
the outcome is always lesser than expected....


indrajeet:
Waste ---- of time, money and energy! :) ;)



venkster:
Hehehe if your answer to life is "dont think too much about it" then you might as well drop your pants and bend down

me:
ur givn me th shit i asked U not to

venkster:
Nobody said life is just (atleast no one smart )...
and the outcome will only be "less than expected" when there is expectation...
learn to put in the effort for the effort itself...
in more cliched terms learn to enjoy the journey rather than wait for the destination...

Hey its shit if you want the "easy way" out...
you're looking for the "one-answer" to life
so that you can lie back in bed and expect things to come to you..
.and thats the "shit"...
you can enjoy what you have, or you can pretty much "f** off"


tamanna suri:
itz not bad luck r high expectations vikky...
itz nothing but not da rite attitude and da person doesn't hve the zeal to get wat dey want.....
itz not winner's attitude....
u wud for sure get da expected outcome if u hve da zeal to get it no matter watever da circumstances are....


dr. gauri madan:
or stuck-in-the-land -of-'whyme?'!
and the path to creating new breakthroughs is to not let ur past decide ur future!
if at all it is anything it can be called a breakdown-- only a landmark in the path to a breakthrough!


anup:
Its called "Improper Definitions of Efforts,Planning and Execution"


alok:
his life sucks...dude...ha ha ha...truth is just slow start...


ishwinder:
one has to be stupid for tht to happen...it is coefficient of imbecility


kailash:
how abt " difference in perception " ???


mehtaji:
Thats LIFE man nothng else..


kritz:
over confidence......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


GI-:
ack of impetus/motivation/drive/incentive..
not sure I understand the context but there can be problem with any of the project phase:
initiation, planning, execution, monitoring and control, and closing.
Quite often,
there are problems with the project management plan,
communications management, risk management, schedule management,
cost management, resource management, scope management,
procurement management or quality management. Does that help?


vishal:
studies i suppose..
atleast in my case it is the right answer


khushali:
the fact dat smeone else shud handle it now.. and ur too dumb to deal wid it ?
the question is when do u STOP hoping :P that it will work and start figuring it wont?


himmat singh:
t's either an axiom’s anomaly....
or a causality of Moira’s PMS


kaps:
Ans: a baby?