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Fear and laziness are the two most common human characteristics

-- waking life

parents

If ur parents are annoyed with U, don’t worry even buddha’s parents were

ayn rand

idealistic: U say ayn rand is idealistic, U can’t owe her a better compliment than that.

It simply shows that you know she is right and yet you wanna argue., very strange., ironical indeed..U mean to say.,she is too good to be true., strange again.

( this is a thought by Mr Siddhartha Varshney, she doesn blog, so I used it )

are U?

are you like all farts and no shit??

at times

at times, U cant justify what U think, or believe or follow or something like that,

It is a sign of a borrowed thought process and nothing.

To me a borrowed thought is not an issue., but you should know why U follow something or someone..

at times

at times, U cant justify what U think, or believe or follow or something like that,

It is a sign of a borrowed thought process and nothing.

To me a borrowed thought is not an issue., but you should know why U follow something or something..

bored to death

Bored to death.

I used to think that its death and not sex and other stuff that drives our lives, but now-a-days, I feel its boredom.

We humans are bored to death creatures, so bored that we need to kill time some way or the other. Mind you, no other living creature is bored except us.

What are we, a bunch of bored to deaths souls, who have nothing better to do in life,

I am repeating the lines again and again to emphasize the point.

But there is a very strong catch with boredom, a lot of things turn out because of it. We are bored, so to kill time we keep on trying and end up discovering a lotta new things.

Moreover we come to the cosmic questions,

1. who are we?
2. why are we here?
3. why me and not anyone else? And stuff like that.

Its this boredom that acts a catalyst when we seek answers. It is this boredom that takes us to a point where in there is so much discontent that we are forced to try, to take the leap.

Boredom otherwise is a lame activity, but if given a proper channel can prove to be the biggest gift to mankind, and in a way this is what separates us from all other animals.

someday.

they say.,
there are three basic necessities in life
1. food
2. clothing
3. shelter.

I say there are four.
and the fourth one is more important ..
its
bullshit.,
yes U read it rite,
"BUll Shit "

its somethng like this.,
half of the world bullshits wit their truth.,
the other half wit their lies.


i'm a complete duffer and this whole bullshit is bullshit so there is nothing to believe and only silence to be in.....peace
indian ocean n floyd rule
\m/


life IS a game
n U cant choose to not play.,
everyone does.,
there never was a choice.,
either u can stand laugh and play.,
or u can always be a wannabe escapist

moreover.,
life's an irony.,
n facts don't change for anyone..


n ya.,
If U need a gaurantee.,
go buy a toaster..""

wisdom.

uR wisdom does not

make others foolish.

baBa ka jawaab nahin

Me: suggest me some books

baBa: Playboy.. :)

trust

trust is an assumption.,

Its another chance that U simply take with a lot of anticipation..

how can U?

How can U be so unkind and end up fuckin ur own mind?

Q&A

Ques. can 2 sane people be in a relationship?

Ans. Naaa, that’d too selfish

who..

Freedom,

Who is the culprit??

The person who denies your freedom in the name of anything or YOU.

I think both are or maybe no one is,

What is the deal.?

Why would give someone so much authority that taking it away would hurt them?

Or why would someone impose so much authority that it would hurt if you deprive them of the same.

Freedom in its neatest form is when left to the individual.

This needs no explaination.

if you have arguments like then if I feel like killing I might as well go kill someone or cause destruction,

then You are not an intended reader for this post.

Don’t equate freedom with insanity.

conversation

Me :

read illusions yesterday, I feel like doping.

Varsha:

illusions is a lovely book.. if U dope ur more likely to suffer from parkinsons which is curable but ur less likely to suffer from schizophrenia.. jus something I read in my text

Me:

If U wanna say no or something, simply say it

Varsha:

Hehe .. sorry.. drugs actually induce the release of dopamine…

which is a substance released by the brain when we ‘re happy.. so dope’s alright if U don’t use it too much.. in which case the brain fails to produce dopamine without the catalyst of dope.. which means u’d be unhappy without dope… anyway m sayin all that coz m kicked that I know… smoke up if ya want to.. fa lala la lala la…

Me:

ya ya, right got it., I wont dope but I feel so much.

Varsha:

Arrey dhakkan why bother to dope… look at the invincible sky feel the incredibly alive earth under ur feet… the sweet air U inhale every moment.. all the amazing loving people U’ve known.. how far U’ve come… how vibrantly alive U are at this moment the simple yet overwhelming joy of just being here under the million odd stars.. sing away n spin for your internal dancer on this stage… twirl spin n leap for joy… it don’t take no time to get mindnumbingly high….

liberty

Ur liberty is your own., and U don't need to ask permissions for the same.
Grab it., actually there is no need to grab it either,
its already yours.
stop believing that others have to approve of it.

abt me

wat is the first thing U notice abt me.?
nice question eh.

I am a hoax., simply a hoax.,
another bored to death human like evry1 of U.,
so really lame to not know it.,
others knowin it ( more helpless ) cuz they cant do a thing abt it.

I m another ordinary creature who falls in either of the two categories.,
1. do something to seek attention
2. don't do anything, cuz it arouses the same curiosity amongst others.,

both are conformists one way or the other.,
they have formed two groups us and them.,

us - are at times very good with words n thngs like setting trends n evrything that they end foolin others (them ) that they are very contended in life.,

them- simply go on sayin ., these thngs that U ( us) talk abt are not practical n evrything.

its so ironical but both are so dependent on each other.,
Us will say we dont give a damn.,
this line is more contradicting than most things.,
if U really dont give a damn., y even care to say that.?
I thnk not sayin the same would be a clearer msg.,
but how will us exist without them.,
whom will they prove lame n say they have risen n are better n shit like that.,


n them simply go on living with amazing dreams n their only n biggest refuges are
majority is right, n good of others is the only good.

its so catchy.,
i m so lost n stuck in reality.,
who am I ?
i find no better answer than the fact tht I am a hoax.,
n a very lame one too..

these days

getting scrwed in life is ok.
,the trick is to not let urself know.

adaptation

When in rome.,

Screw the romans

ask ., cuz no one else will

Ru an attention seeker.?

The form be any.,

Ask this to yourself everyday, n just see the variety of answers U get.,

At times U wud get justifications how this is not something to seek attention n all n its wat U are, ( authenticity I mean ) and in the mean while U end realizing a lot about yourself, U get to know yourself better.

Moreover this also helps in dissolving the ego, though the process is slow, but It kinda works.

U do something and the moment U realize it was simply to seek attention, it gets tough to repeat the same, at times a lotta things in our routine are nothing but attention seeking activities, it just that we have been doing them unconsciously for so long that we tend to take them for real.

desire to live.

Passions, hobbies, ambitions, etc.. n things like wise have become so much of a need.

We need all these or else we mite die of boredom, frustration,

There is so much need to kill time or else man will go crazy.,

There is a this quote that says

“man needed work , so he invented the alarm clock”..

wat is it that we are actually tryin to achieve out of like.,

is there really a goal?

Desting followers say its all defined, and there is no end or start and Ur simply playing your part, and others are playing theirs,

Can there be a desire to live without the above mentioned things?

freedom

Freedom not only implies the liberty of doing right to urself and others, but also doing wrong to both, Or else its like

“cage Is a cage , even if it were of gold”..

Wat religions, and the various ‘isms’ do is that they give U a domain to be free in, its kinda lame if taken in that sense,

For instance a religion mite not actually want U to be binded to that one particular religion, but people have been makin rituals out of religion for centuries, n hence the pretense and the mis interpretation.

there is one catch, religions and the other ‘isms’ tell you or want you to be like someone or fit in a definition and stuff to qualify, but they never want you to be urself, that is something they are very much against, n in the past any or all kinds of followers have been looked up with so much respect and dignity that its really tough to find a flaw in the same, they say you must be ready to kill others or die for ur beliefs, its so lame and suicidal, but it has been looked up with immense respect and pride, every mother in Punjab would send her elder son to the army, to die for the country, -- What kinda love is this for a child??

Children have been made to believe that dying or killing for ur beliefs is the biggest virtue possible.

I can’t understand how, but I have rarely seen children being told to live for wat they think and know, knowing is dangerous.

And even if its ur belief system why do U seek conformance from others, why do U force others (children and family)to follow U..

A classic example of this was Mahatma Gandhi, he lived his life with satyagraha and all that ( there is a lot of controversy abt that too) , and forced his family to live in the same manner.

Its very ironical, Buddha was not a Buddhist, Jesus was not a Christian n like wise..

Then there is a new bunch of so called ‘intellectually free religious creatures’ they read a variety of scriptures and claim to be religiously broad minded, I mean this is contradicting in a way,

Why do U need support from religions to be broad minded.

Wat is more important, reading a 1000verses everyday and knowing them by heart

OR

Being able to practice a selected few of them throughout your life,

How does one define freedom, as it is we are so dependent intellectually on books, religious , non religious, fiction, etc. etc.

Can there really be something worthy of being called as freedom? Where in no thought is dependent in any form, U dnt say I m sane cuz I follow this and that..

Its like the hindi sayin

“ hamaam mein sabhi nange hain”

or more like th English one

“where is your line in the sand ??”

If U need a guarantee, go buy a toaster.

--- One of the Good bad Ugly movies

wisdom, guilt

Wisdom hurts,

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/wisdom

wisdom in plain words is the ability to differentiate between right and wrong.

guilt is of two kinds.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/guilt

1

.guilt after doing something wrong, U drink , smoke, cheat etc, etc., n U keep on feeling guilty after having done the same, something that U think or know is wrong., ( reasons maybe any ) for instance a jain might feel guilty after consuming onions, n likewise.

This guilt is centered around the ‘wrong’.

2.

"to me guilt and wisdom go hand in hand, when U get rid of ur guilt, it becomes wisdom."

guilt after U realize, wat the right is. U end up understanding and then you are liberated in a way, Ur devoid of that guilt, if for instance smoking helped when U were tense,

U quit smoking and come to a point where U realize it was all psychological.

The trick is when you are in a mess, your mind tempts you to smoke, telling U how it helped you in your past, n U so want to give in at times, but then there is a prominently strong voice in head saying ( you know its just a psychological thing, smoking a cigarette aint gonna help, cuz now U know its stupid, previously you dint), to me this voice that talks is wisdom.

??

is there a fucking point in anything??

.. .. ..

its easier to motive people

against something than for it..

attention.

most things we do are to seek attention,

there is so much value in seeking conformance from the crowd,

all that is there is to seek the approval of others,

what do junkies do? they do something or the other very unusual to seek attention from others, from the crowd, that is all they crave for, if they get it, the jobs’ well done,

now the interesting query that arises in the head is how do U define authenticity,

if someone is very creative enough to come with a new look, say a hair style, or any other thing,

is it to seek attention or it is an outcome of their creative energy,

the only way to deal with a junkie is not give them any attention,

U see some with red color in their hair, and U want to discourage them,

U want them to stop the crap,

simply don’t ask, don’t comment whether its bad or good,

its creates a lot of anxiety in their heads,

they get so messed up and confused,

I did something out of the league and still they are not noticing it,

He gets very confused,

He mite try harder or maybe realize the stupidity of it and stop.

My writing a blog and asking a few people to read it also falls in this category at times,

I dunno if I seek conformance but I wanna hear wat thoughts ( if any ) that arise in people’s heads when they read it.

most..

Human body is the most egoistic entity in this world.

sane

Act sanely, it gives others a reason good enough to follow U..

rarely..

religious people rarely realize

that they are wanna be’s too.

choose

Choose..

Why do you write??

1. no reason et all

2. there is one but U wanna keep it private

3. publicity stunt

4. time killer

5. U never thought there had to be a reason, but wrote cuz people used to,

and now that I am asking., Ur like waadddd???

6. Others please specify..

perception is where we all differ

Q: define perception...and dont say its the way u see things...thats a cliche
Ans:
a single unified awareness derived from sensory processes while a stimulus is present.


Q: so u believe it is always: Singular
and based only on sensory processes??

Ans:
in a way yes.,
i cant describe it.,
in a casual.,
its our take on things.,
which is formed on the basis of our conditioning .,
n more importantly our perception about others things.,
its like a recursive definition..



Q: perception of other thigs..so u believe its never ever isolated?

Ans:
i dnt think so.,
but i really dont know.,
to me the definition is very confusing.,
if it were alone it wud be based on an assumption.,
n also on ur perception again that U wnt reagard ur assumption as a perception..

eGo

Osho has said.,

“the ego is absolutely masturbation.

you do everything to yourself through your own reflections”

if ur wondering why ego., then here it is.,
U can say 99% of th world around us is ego.,

what is ego.?
In a basic sense., its a wrong interpretation of the self.,
Nature sends us empty handed n takes us away empty handed..

ego starts the moment ur born or at times even before that..

few things we get at birth.,
a name.,
religion.,
family.,
home.,
neighbours., etc..

then they become our identity.,
we are no more..

after th primitive age is over.,
we start schooling. then another identity is added to us.,
school., then th class ., then ur rank in the class.,
ur frens in school..

some day U grow up., meet people of the opposite sex.,
fall in love giving urself another identity., and all ur life.,
things get accumulated..

one fine day if someone asks you.,
"who are you?"
U simply dont know.,
cause U have been conditioned to believe that all the
identities you wre given since childhood is wat you are.,
n moreover
these fake identities ( fake in the sense U dont discover them., they
are simply passed on to you )
lead to all the conflicts n fights n literally all the wrong things in
life..

you are ready to kill others ., not just one or two.,
entire towns ., nations are killed .,
n the reason
someone made fun of ur name ., ur religion., n other things.,
things that are nt even a part of you.,

U go on killin., fightin for somethin you dont even have.,
U have a feelin all ur life that its urs.,
U posses it.,

but one cant possess anythin but oneself.,
actually U cant even posses urself.,
we have a belief we do.,
but there r so many obligations that are imposed on Us.,
that we cant even posses ourselves..

anothr example of ego is somethin U mite not agree to.,
one of the biggest gifts of mind is language.,
n one of language's best is humor.,

most humor is centered around the ego.,
either U make fun of someone's religion.,
his body.,
his origin.,
n things like that.,

n wat does one get after it., ego satisfaction.,
so many., rather most of us., live for ego satisfaction.,

there is this movie revolver which has few lines that mean a lot.,

here U go.,

There is something about urself that
you dont know., something you wil deny that it even exists., untill its too late to do something about it., Its th only reason you get up in the morning., only reason you suffer in the shitty bus., the blood., the sweat and the tears.,this is because you want people to know how good., attractive, funny,active generous., and clever you really are.? fear or revere me., but please think I am special.
If You have an addiction., a group of junkies are all in it for a slap on th back and the gold watch., th hip hop who fuckin raw.,
look at the clever boy with th badge polishing his tropy., shine on ur crazy diamond..
cause we are just monkey's wrapped in suits begging for th approval of others..
If we knew this we wouldn do this...
Someone is hiding this from us., n if U had a second chance you would ask WHY..?

I feel this post is incomplete.,
dunno wen but wil complete it someday.,
if U can help me do so., ur most welcome.,

is it??

iS history reliable?

they dont

Facts don’t give a damn about difference of opinion.

how??

How would you respond to a friend pointing out some kind of hypocrisy practiced by the elders in your family??

What is better???

Case 1: a child paints something, its not good, not worth that much of an appreciation,Should the mother be telling the child that its very nice, n U tried very hard n that is what matters, and every1 can’t be a great artist n boasting things like that.

Case 2: Or she should simply tell the child, well tried but U were no where close to the mark, so that the child realizes where he/she stands.

The similar scenario can be considered between 2frens, a couple, etc etc..

kyun??

why is it so necessary??

why.

Can’t we hold back our

emotions,

feelings,

thoughts, etc.etc.

why is there so strong a craving to vent everything out,

why can’t we contain these things inside,

why is it so tough??

why??

"why do people allege you of being idealist or impractical when you tell them a right that they are failing to practice concerning their beliefs and values?"

query

Quesiton.--;;
what do U call the factor when the effort is more than required.,
plannning is rite and even the execution is right., but still the outcome is lesser than expected.?

dont gimme bad luck., its too common a term.,
n also dont tell me high expectations..



Vaibhav:
nope.. its called bad execution..
it is also the lack of interest in the thing u do..
that keeps me from giving 100% .. hope thats made it simple..


anish:
if the execution is right then the outcome should be as expected...
but if it is not then there would be something missing in the planning itself.......
may be u need to revisit your plans..



divya:
hahaha..i wld say none of those
infat i think u have lacked one thing patience.....
the results may nt be seen today..bt sooner yes..u lack patience



becks:
[:-/]..I dont kno mate. Bt i'm one of those, who believes in WHATEVR HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR GOOD..
Sooner than later u will realize this n thn u will hv ur answer, y the outcome was lesser than xpected !!



vinay:
its not bad luck. i guess....
u can call it "hard work"...
cos ur never happy if u worked more than needed...
the outcome is always lesser than expected....


indrajeet:
Waste ---- of time, money and energy! :) ;)



venkster:
Hehehe if your answer to life is "dont think too much about it" then you might as well drop your pants and bend down

me:
ur givn me th shit i asked U not to

venkster:
Nobody said life is just (atleast no one smart )...
and the outcome will only be "less than expected" when there is expectation...
learn to put in the effort for the effort itself...
in more cliched terms learn to enjoy the journey rather than wait for the destination...

Hey its shit if you want the "easy way" out...
you're looking for the "one-answer" to life
so that you can lie back in bed and expect things to come to you..
.and thats the "shit"...
you can enjoy what you have, or you can pretty much "f** off"


tamanna suri:
itz not bad luck r high expectations vikky...
itz nothing but not da rite attitude and da person doesn't hve the zeal to get wat dey want.....
itz not winner's attitude....
u wud for sure get da expected outcome if u hve da zeal to get it no matter watever da circumstances are....


dr. gauri madan:
or stuck-in-the-land -of-'whyme?'!
and the path to creating new breakthroughs is to not let ur past decide ur future!
if at all it is anything it can be called a breakdown-- only a landmark in the path to a breakthrough!


anup:
Its called "Improper Definitions of Efforts,Planning and Execution"


alok:
his life sucks...dude...ha ha ha...truth is just slow start...


ishwinder:
one has to be stupid for tht to happen...it is coefficient of imbecility


kailash:
how abt " difference in perception " ???


mehtaji:
Thats LIFE man nothng else..


kritz:
over confidence......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


GI-:
ack of impetus/motivation/drive/incentive..
not sure I understand the context but there can be problem with any of the project phase:
initiation, planning, execution, monitoring and control, and closing.
Quite often,
there are problems with the project management plan,
communications management, risk management, schedule management,
cost management, resource management, scope management,
procurement management or quality management. Does that help?


vishal:
studies i suppose..
atleast in my case it is the right answer


khushali:
the fact dat smeone else shud handle it now.. and ur too dumb to deal wid it ?
the question is when do u STOP hoping :P that it will work and start figuring it wont?


himmat singh:
t's either an axiom’s anomaly....
or a causality of Moira’s PMS


kaps:
Ans: a baby?